Allowing Myself to Allow…

by Judy Klipin

Yesterday I was in the horns of a dilemma: to apply for a job I was asked to apply for, or to say “thanks but no thanks”.

After some agonizing I let it go and decided to trust the process- the right decision would come to me when I allowed it to.

I had asked if the position could be a flexi- or part-time one so I could continue with my coaching.  And this morning they got back to me.  “Unfortunately it is a full-time position.”

Nothing unfortunate about it.  Thank you for making my decision so easy; it’s a no!

The relief that I feel is evidence enough that, even if they had made it a part-time post, it wouldn’t have been the right thing for me to do.

Yet again I have been provided with evidence that when I let go and allow, I get the answer I need!

A very large contributor to me allowing myself to allow, was processing my thoughts through writing them down and posting them yesterday.  Thank you for the support and the synergy that was created by your reading it.

I won’t be posting here for a few days – I am off tomorrow for a long weekend away and then I am going to Namibia to do some training.  I will catch up with you when I am back in the coaching saddle!

 

 

 

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