I is for…
I The word ‘life’ has the letter I in the centre. Which is exactly where we should be in our own lives. This does not come naturally to adult children, who tend to be what I call ‘others-centred’ – we put others at the centre of our lives and ourselves on the outside, looking in. Looking...
Tyred Out
I have had a slow puncture in one of the wheels on my car for some time now. It started with a 4 inch nail piercing my tyre while I was driving to the airport at 4am in December. The nice men at the service station kindly patched the wheel up and sent me on my way, but the leak has been getting progressively...
In Praise of Long-Term Work
I have often thought of becoming a Clinical Psychologist. I have spent a sizeable chunk of my life in therapy and think the work they do is amazing. But the thought of making a long-term commitment to a relationship with someone else’s psyche has always turned me off the idea. Far too much responsibility. Instead,...
H is for…
…Honest One of the characteristics of adult children is that we tell little lies when it would be just as easy to tell the truth. Not big, corruption-laden lies, but small white lies designed to keep us from being hurt. “I don’t mind,” we say, when what we mean is “I do mind. A lot.” Or...
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